What is with our generation that we can’t be honest with others? Is it really so much better to avoid conflict rather than face it head on? Many of my latest dating experiences consist of Ghosting and lying and deceit. I don’t understand why it is so difficult to give someone some closure… When I am not interested in someone then I tell them… I don’t lead them on or make them feel like something could happen when I know I couldn’t. Granted I have “ghosted” some before, but only if nothing physical has happened and it’s only been 1-3 dates… I am not sure those types require an explanation as to why someone may not want to continue to pursue a relationship. However, if someone engages in sexual activity or has developed an emotional attachment, I believe it is only fair to allow the person being turned down some closure. Disappointment is part of becoming an adult. We are constantly having to face challenges. So why is it so difficult to allow someone to shut down their own feeling
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Looks like my Blogging life has taken quite the hit! eh? haha well I think it is about time to go ahead and update it and share a bit of what has been goin on! Mostly just work and going through the motions, I work for Briggs Built Metal, I was hired as a delivery guy but as time keeps goin by I have become the "all around guy" I bend metal, remodel, office work, and they have actually just made me a salesman and that is prolly my favorite one! I love going out and talking with potential customers and just getting to know people! So if anyone needs any metal roofing or siding hit me up! we go everywhere! The past few weeks have been pretty cool tho, I think I have been down to Utah 3 of the last 4 weeks, I had a mission reunion one week and it was great to see some old friends and both of my mission presidents. The next week I went down to Salt Lake to go to the annual Jazz game, it was against the Golden State Warriors which turned out to be a disappointment as they lost ( a
Wow! I totally forgot I even had a blog! (sorry Melissa ) the last little while has been so crazy, I got a new job working for Briggs Built Metal, I am the Dispatcher for deliveries and things, I take care of the trucks and trailers but mostly I just drive around in my big Duramax . I keep trying to talk my boss into getting me a Powerstroke but we'll see! I love it actually I work with my best friend and a couple other friends as well so it is a blast! I have done a lot of traveling the last couple weeks as well, my buddy Lane and I went to Calgary, AB, Canada to visit his sister, I have never been to Canada before so we had a lot of fun despite our 6 hour detour to Billings, MT, whoops! We then came back and it was straight to Logan for thanksgiving, and I spent a couple extra days with Shelby and Ashton! (I Love them!) I forgot to mention that my lil bro Pogy came home in between those 2 trips, and it has been fun to have him back again, we are always boxing and wrestling!
O life on a farm is kinda laid back ain't much an old country boy like me can't hack! I have spent the last couple months doing something that I absolutely love! Harvest! haha There is just something that has always drawn me to agriculture, especially tractors, I don't know if it is because I grew up collecting the little ERTL toys with my father or the fact that I remember spending time in the tractor with him and in the truck with my mother or what, but I have always enjoyed being around it! I worked for M&M Farms which is partnered with Thompson Farms and I have become pretty good friends with them and they treat me very well! I pretty much did everything there from mechanic work to driving semi and the tractor. Because I went south to farm I was able to see my Grandpa hauling into the same places and that was always fun to be able to talk with him as we waited to unload.The weather was so good this year, we started a week late and ended a week early, which is great
Before ya"ll get too excited and think that the last post means one certain topic let me assure you that it is not the only meaning! It is partly that but I meant it as a bunch of general topics from work, to school, purchases, girls, and moving out, etc. I am just having dificulty in making the "hard decisions" and I am not sure that I really remember how to get my answers :(
I know it has been a while! i have done alot since the last post as well! it truly has been the best summer of my life! I really needed it to help me figure out what it is that I want to do, I have been working on my application to Utah State, I love it there and other then BYU it is my top choice i have always wanted to go there, so we will see what happens as to whether or not I get in, if not then I guess i really will try to go to byu-i (YUCK) I have had a lot weigh on my mind lately and as I ponder things and study it out and pray about them I am not sure I know how to get an answer anymore, as we are taught we will have a burning in our boosom and feel good about it and if it not be right then we will have a stupor of thought! well when does it come? I thought I felt good about something like really good and worked hard for, and felt worthy of an answer and i felt good about it but then it turned out to be the exact opposite! and now I completely avoid it, i guess i just don'
WOW! What a week! Starting off with girls in bikinis ( can't get a better start then that haha) out on the water, I was able to go wakeboarding for the first time since before my mission and it was a blast if you haven't yet noticed it is my ultimate favorite thing to do. I was really rusty but still had a great time, did I mention there was girls in bikinis? The next night we decided to have a guys night out and went and saw Iron Man in the cheap theatre and you know what? I was really impressed with that movie I thought it would be lame but it was really good. On the 3rd of July Rigby holds there annual fireworks show out at the lake so my friend Ryan and I went about 3:00 to save spots for our friends, we set up a volleyball net and played sand v-ball and had a bar-b-que we ended up having about 15 people or so show up to play but to watch fireworks it was only a few of us, I had my cousin Kamille come and she had been talking to me about this girl that I should take out and