What is with our generation that we can’t be honest with others? Is it really so much better to avoid conflict rather than face it head on? Many of my latest dating experiences consist of Ghosting and lying and deceit. I don’t understand why it is so difficult to give someone some closure… When I am not interested in someone then I tell them… I don’t lead them on or make them feel like something could happen when I know I couldn’t. Granted I have “ghosted” some before, but only if nothing physical has happened and it’s only been 1-3 dates… I am not sure those types require an explanation as to why someone may not want to continue to pursue a relationship. However, if someone engages in sexual activity or has developed an emotional attachment, I believe it is only fair to allow the person being turned down some closure. Disappointment is part of becoming an adult. We are constantly having to face challenges. So why is it so difficult to allow someone to shut down their own feeling
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